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Twins

Double the Fun, Double the Trouble, but also Double the Love, Kisses, & Hugs

Bringing home twins is a tremendous challenge for any parent!

 

It is crucial that you seek support during this transitional period and know that life will become easier. 

Through trial and error, you will develop personalized strategies and routines that work best for you and your family.   

 

Recommendations & Guidelines

Feeding 

  • Timing- Attempt to Sync Schedules 

    • If possible, feed them simultaneously 

      • if this is too difficult it is OK to feed them one after another and to ask for help if you are bottle feeding â€‹

    • If one wakes up hungry, wake the other to feed ​

  • Breastfeeding

    • Alternate breasts with each twin* 

      • if one tends to eat more than the other, you may experience engorgement, an imbalance in production, or clogged ducts​

    • Positioning 

      • ​double rugby hold aka double clutch
      • experiment with different positions that allow you to be hands-free for repositioning 
      • ensure that they are positioned at an incline and not lying flat​
  • Bottle feeding 

    • prepare many bottles in advance â€‹and keep a bottle-warmer ready to go on the kitchen counter ​​

      • NEVER microwave their milk, as this can create hotspots and cause serious injury ​

  • Feeding Aids​

    • twin feeding pillow ​​or simply a pillow under each arm to reduce fatigue 

      • "Twin-Z-Pillow" ​is c-section friendly and made exclusively for breastfeeding twins 

  • Burping 

    • take turns to burp each ​baby separately, alternating who goes first with each feeding 

    • the other twin may cry while they are waiting their turn, it is OK and they will eventually learn patience 

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Refer to "Breastfeeding" or "Bottle feeding" under the Feeding tab

Telling Your Twins Apart 

  • It helps to keep their NICU bracelet on until you are able to tell who is who 

    • Look for distinguishing freckles, head shape, birthmarks, etc. 

    • Dress them in different colors 

    • Place them on the same side for every picture 

 

Bonding- Remember! It takes time! 

  • Take the time to get to know each twin individually and appreciate their differences 

    • They are two separate babies with different personalities

    • It is totally normal for one twin to develop and mature at a faster rate than the other

Refer to the "Parent-Infant Bonding" tab 

 

Sleeping- They each need their own crib! 

  • Separate cribs in the same room 

    • will allow them to see and hear each other ​and promote the syncing of their schedules

  • The same rules for safe sleep apply to twins or multiples

Refer to "Safe Sleep Environment" under the Sleep tab

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To reduce the risk of Sudden Infant Death Syndrome (SIDS) & Sudden Unexplained Infant Death Syndrome (SUIDS), The American Academy of Pediatrics recommends that each infant have their own designated safe-sleep area.

 

Hint ** If your baby spent any amount of time in the NICU, ask the nurses to write down their feeding/sleeping schedule and do your best to follow that! 

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(Ball, 2006); Frebbraro, 2015); Kramer, 2018); Tomashek & Wallman, 2007)

The information contained in this website should not be used as a substitute for the medical care or advice from your pediatrician. Your pediatrician may have specific recommendations based on your child's individual circumstances. 

References

Ball, H. (2006). Caring for twin infants: Sleeping arrangements and their implications. Evidence-Based Midwifery, 4, 10-16. http://dx.doi.org/10.1053/j.nainr.2012.06.001

 

Febbraro, J. (2015). Nursing twins. Today's Parent, 32, 52-56. Retrieved from https://search.proquest.com/docview/1634993484?accountid=158603

 

Kramer, P. (2018).  Twins and multiples: Surviving the first year. American Baby. Retrieved from https://www.parents.com/baby/twins/raising/managing-multiples/

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Tomashek, K., & Wallman, C. (2007). Cobedding twins and higher-order multiples in a hospital setting. The American Academy of Pediatrics, 6, 1359-1366. http://dx.doi.org/10.1542/peds.2006-3096

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